Human Dimensions

This chapter was coached by Jenna Buffaloe, focusing on the managers’ wellness, and effective communications.

Be responsible

We are responsible for our decisions, the balls are always in our court.

If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.

— Maya Angelou

Benefit of doubt

We look through our own perspectives to observe the world, we MAY NOT be aware of the secret story, try to be curious to dig deeper:

Coat of Arms

Pick 4 traits to express a leader:

  1. resilent
  2. optimistic
  3. empathy
  4. adventuous

Courageous conversation

Detox your thinking with tactics mentioned above during the difficult conversation:

  1. Conscientiousness: calm down.
  2. Self-Awareness: why it matters and what do I really really want?
  3. Take Responsibility: what request can I make?
  4. Be More Curious: give the person benefit of doubt.
  5. Live Your Values: see Coat of Arms.

Request and commitment

Elements of request:

  1. In order to accomplish ABC…
  2. I request you to delver X by Y
  3. Can you commit this?

Commitment integrity:

Speaking up

Do NOT mess up the facts and your opinions/perspectives, use the following framework:

  1. When I see … (facts)
  2. I feel … (emotions)
  3. Because I think … (opions)
  4. What I really care about is … (deep truth)
  5. So I suggest … (actions)
  6. What do you think? (curiosty and empathy)